![]() ![]() Throughout the text, Mitch notes that Morrie has an unshakable belief that Mitch is still the kind and sensitive person he was when he was in school, and the love and community he experiences with Morrie allows him to return in some form to that person. Morrie's love and support allows Mitch to more fully embrace his life, his goals, and his ability to love and be open and vulnerable to those whom he loves. In the end, it is Mitch's love and respect for Morrie that brings about the positive changes in Mitch's life, and which motivates Mitch to capture and explain the lessons he has learned from Morrie in Tuesdays with Morrie. His relationship with Morrie while at school flourishes in part because Morrie meets Mitch where he is in life, responding to Mitch's desire to be heard and supported in his dreams and desires. In this way, love is the ultimate motivator for Morrie's actions throughout the scope of the book as well as throughout his life. Later in life, when he creates his own family with Charlotte and has two sons, he vows to give them the love that he never got from his own father. He finally receives parental affection from Eva, his stepmother. When Morrie was very young, his affectionate mother dies and he is left longing for love and affection from his colder and more reserved father, Charlie. Love is a central tenet of Morrie's philosophy, and as the book follows the vignettes through his early life, it shows both how he was highly motivated by a desire to love and be loved, and how that desire is universal. After Morrie's death, Mitch is finally able to reach out successfully to Peter with a message of love and compassion, and Peter is responsive to that. The text does present a hopeful tone for repairing relationships with family, however. ![]() On the other hand, Mitch's brother, Peter, moved to Spain and is battling cancer mostly estranged from Mitch and the rest of their family. Because of this, he places a great degree of emphasis on the decisions to marry and have children when Mitch brings up the topic. Morrie believes deeply in familial responsibility, saying that his family can't choose not to support him through his illness like a friend could. Morrie's immediate family is very close his sons and his wife, Charlotte, are around to support him through his illness. ![]() ![]() The reader is asked to consider the difference between the way that Morrie's family functions and the way that Mitch's family functions. By interacting with his community in this way, he never has to truly give up teaching.įamily is held up as being immensely important, even more so than platonic friends. This interaction with his greater community is vitally important to Morrie, as he uses his community to spread what he's learned about life and death. He makes a point to receive as many visitors as possible and reply to much of the mail he gets following the Nightline interview. Morrie's self-created culture is, at its heart, about prioritizing people and relationships over accumulating material things. Morrie comes back again and again to the importance of community and family, especially in light of his deteriorating health. Watching Morrie's relationships evolve throughout his life asks the reader to consider the degree of validity for those statements. The text provides some nuances as to how that love is expressed by questioning if love is still valid and useful if it's harder to see. He believes there is nothing as important as relationships with friends, family, and community. Auden, and it is the guiding philosophy of Morrie's life. "Love each other or perish" is Morrie's favorite line by poet W. ![]()
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